Ever thought what makes your family or any other family have a joyous life? While growing up and watching movies like hum saath saath hai or Baghban, we all try making perspectives about how an ideal happy family should be.
What is the secret to a happy family?
Well, in reality, the truth of a happy family means having everything any other family has from having cranky children to money issues, from messy houses to intense fights. What makes a family happy is the realisation and acceptance of the love, affection and togetherness you are bound with. Life has ups and downs, but families which stick together no matter what and value the contentment and realise there is no bigger support than family in the world, keep the same together and in content. A happy family is a family that has members who understand the meaning and importance of love and support and never leave your back.
Being a happy family is much more than having fun together and enjoying trips and playing silly games, it is staying back in sad times and supporting each other in lows, failures and harsh phases of life we all go through.
Though it can be hard to define a happy family entirely, here are your keys to try building a happy family that shall strengthen your relations, bonds of affection and love.
Interaction Within Family
One of the most significant keys to a happy family is interacting with each other. Interaction plays an eminently important and challenging role to build a happy family. In today’s generation where people are oriented towards social media, and other interactive applications, Interactions within the family became very less than ever has. Interactions among family creates a sense of awareness and sensitivity between the members in regard to the issues, problems or normal daily activities there loved ones are into.
It is necessary to cultivate an open environment for family to interact in candor. Listening and talking to each other admirably strengthens the bond, never lets you get bored of each other and helps understanding each other’s feelings and thoughts and creates frankness and happiness amongst each other
Leaning On Each Other
What is a family for if you can’t look upto or lean onto each other? The happy families are those who always back each other no matter what circumstances arise. In this world full of conditionality and self centered behaviorism, a family could always be a happy place to go to, be it in content or sadness. Life can be hard and so can be the people in it, we go through failures, setbacks and many downs in our lives, but what matters is who stays up behind to help us overcome the lows of life.
Leaning on to family can make the same dependable, supportive and happy place to resort to. When nobody is there, family should always be, to help, emotionally support, keep your secrets, to care and especially to lean onto. Therefore, another important key is leaning on each other.
Understanding & Caring Each Other
Every now and then, families usually disintegrate or feud due to misunderstandings or bitterness they carry in their heart. Members of the family misunderstand the care and love due to various reasons. In this selfish world, where people run after their own self interest, it is the family who should understand each other to create an environment of peace among each other.
When one showcases their care and affection towards their family in hard times, emotional affairs etc., it helps in the building of a happy family as it provides emotional support of pillar to the members and make them feel understood and cared about, understanding makes it easier for families to open up, appreciate, correct the wrong and express each other among family in a more explicit way.
A family that eats together, stays together. It is necessary that a family has a value system and some rules that should be followed in order to build a happy family. Eating together, enjoying together and even going through bad phases together can always help your family to bond and strengthen over.
Values as a part of our culture are necessary to invoke positivity and good behaviour from one another. It is to be seen as a responsibility towards the family and our loved ones to follow the values we have been given to follow to lead a life full of happiness as well as satisfaction.
Indeed, A happy Family is not something that exists, but is built. It requires constant support, efforts to make a family that is joyous and living life at its fullest. Therefore, go on to apply the keys to your life and make a difference, a better one.