Whether you are a married couple or living-in with your partner, cheating in any relationship can shatter you from within if you are more committed and serious for your relationship and visualize yourself as an ideal couple some years down the lane. Cheating is cheating, no matter what so ever the reason is; if you are committed to a relationship and then suddenly breaking it can affect the life of your partner drastically.
Beneath are some of the reasons why people opt for Infidelity
For sex desires
Many times we cheat our partner just to seek sexual pleasure if we do not receive it from our better-half or the physical detachment could be one of the reasons. Also, they use it as a tool to break up and sexual infidelity gives them a good excuse for moving ahead. But being in multiple relationships at the same time could be an infatuation. We cannot call it love since it lacks emotional bonding which is a prerequisite in building a strong relationship.
When couples are not able to give time to each other due to their hectic schedule, it creates stress in the relationship resulting in distances. The other person starts fighting unnecessarily to escape the boredom from their lives and start making new friends with whom they get connected closely. Sometimes it creates trust issues as well between the couple. However, if both the partners act wisely, this situation can be avoided, everybody should understand that there are many other priorities as well which can’t be overlooked at all and there is always a common way to solve the problems.
There are several instances where one of them is not emotionally connected to another for any sort of reason. In such cases, they start seeing the relationship as a burden and they keep dragging it for the sake of family or children instead of sorting out things. The main reason for these issues is the missing ‘Communication’. They do not want to discuss just to avoid another argument. But they do not understand that the issue will never wave until it will be discussed. They are supposed to find a solution that gives a win-win for both.
Every small problem is big till the time it is not discussed, so try and speak with your partner about the reason of grievances so that they can be solved at the initial phase only. So it is you who have to decide whether you want to give your relationship another chance or want to move on. But always be clear in your head with your desires otherwise you will end up hurting yourself as well as your partner.
Start talking and start spreading happiness. Live happily and never lose your inner self.